Transform the whine to a wish through recognition, then add the wish to the wish list on the spot. Dignify it by asking for details to add – color, size? Establish clearly as family practice that all items brought into the home will be those that fit the culture and values of the family.

“Oh, and maybe this goes without saying, but an important part of this equation is: Don’t buy toys when your kid asks for them.”

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