Our children can’t know what we value if we have forgotten it ourselves. And it’s easy to forget with so many high powered voices clamoring after us, telling us again and again in so many different ways with such certainty and so much jazz what is valuable, how lacking we are without it, and how we must do anything, give everything to get it.

“So how about we cease and desist on the pressure front – and get our eye back on the ball that matters – stop asking What (What grade did you get? What team did you make?) and begin asking Who, Where, and How?

1. Who tells us who we are?
2. Where do we want to go with our lives?
3. How do we want to get there?”


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